| April,
2008
From
the Rector's Desk
Dear
friends,
I am writing this on the first week of Easter, with the glow
of Easter and Holy Week still upon me. It was a glorious week,
the liturgies were well attended, the services went well,
the music was high quality and suitable for the day, and the
church was full. We welcomed a number of visitors, as we always,
do, and that put me in mind of a few points.
I think that we need to be more attentive to the way we welcome
visitors. The Evangelism Committee, under Tim Boos’
able leadership is doing a fine job in following up newcomers.
But there are some things each of us can do. Consider these
possibilities:
Always wear your nametag. A visitor told me the other day
that she is never good with names and that since most of our
folks leave their nametags neatly stored on the racks, most
of us are anonymous. Being a newcomer is rough enough. But
having an idea of whom you are talking to can be a first step
Make room for a visitor in church. If you are seated on the
aisle and someone comes in looking for a place to sit, move
over and give them your place. That says to the visitor, “You
are important and I want you to be comfortable.”
After church, invite anyone you may not know to come to coffee
hour. There is nothing like the personal invitation to make
all the difference.
At coffee hour, don’t just talk to the people you know.
Don’t just talk to the people who, for various reasons,
you would like to know better. Take a look around at the group
and see who has no one to talk to. I hate to tell you how
many times I have spent talking with people whom no one else
would talk to. Sometimes I even have to go find someone and
ask that person to go talk to a neglected soul over near the
coffee table.
Take a walk out into the courtyard and see if there are smokers
or fresh air fans who are sitting out there and might benefit
from your greeting.
The secret to being a growing church is to be a greeting church.
And that is everyone’s vocation.
Faithfully,
The Rev’d Lloyd Prator
Rector
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